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When we do our Energy Me Work well, we often find that we’re able to make gradual and important shifts in ourselves — even while navigating the same complexities of the workplace."}],"markDefs":[{"_key":"4426f92cee7e","_type":"link","href":"https://chief.com/articles/erin-coupe-energy-intelligence-leadership"}],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"bb02a36b1700","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"5d8bb37777f30","_type":"span","marks":["strong"],"text":"Connection"}],"markDefs":[],"style":"heading2"},{"_key":"6a0db45ae363","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"79b000cabd7c0","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"Connection Me Work is about prioritizing strong interpersonal relationships over ego, defensiveness, or being right. Connection Me Work is about taking responsibility for our inner operating system so that we become more open and available to give the best of ourselves to others — and receive the best others have to offer with both grace and healthy boundaries. 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We often mindlessly choose being right or maintaining a self-image, usually to the demise of "},{"_key":"dd8a4eb14f3d3","_type":"span","marks":["a61429c6faa0"],"text":"genuine connection"},{"_key":"dd8a4eb14f3d4","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":" with others."}],"markDefs":[{"_key":"a61429c6faa0","_type":"link","href":"https://chief.com/articles/why-frictionless-connection-stopped-working"}],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"8f3c4670e484","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"2589594dadd80","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"When we do our Connection Me Work, we tend to notice subtle and sometimes overt differences in the way we feel and relate, even with people who do not seem to be doing their own Me Work. Over time, we are gradually able to shift to clearer forms of communication, more emotionally open and available to others, and are able to consider different perspectives. This can reduce stress, improve overall health with greater mental focus and clarity, and gives a clear purpose that directs our energy investments in the workplace."}],"markDefs":[],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"1bdba8cd3614","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"2a660005f8930","_type":"span","marks":["strong"],"text":"Courage"}],"markDefs":[],"style":"heading2"},{"_key":"40229a133750","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"d2f26b3741420","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"Courage Me Work is about strengthening our integrity muscles so that we do what is right or necessary more often, even when it feels "},{"_key":"d2f26b3741421","_type":"span","marks":["6909d0583d32"],"text":"hard or risky"},{"_key":"d2f26b3741422","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":". Courage Me Work helps us "},{"_key":"d2f26b3741423","_type":"span","marks":["aa111c8f6ba4"],"text":"clarify our values"},{"_key":"d2f26b3741424","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":" and act in accordance even when it means we need to walk through fear or discomfort in order to do so."}],"markDefs":[{"_key":"6909d0583d32","_type":"link","href":"https://chief.com/articles/sustainable-leadership-uncertain-times-capacity-wellbeing"},{"_key":"aa111c8f6ba4","_type":"link","href":"https://chief.com/articles/prioritizing-alignment-over-authority"}],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"0151a2ba0932","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"7409731d6cae0","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"Courage Me Work challenges us to get comfortable with feeling vulnerable or afraid and following our internal North Star anyway. Over time, Courage Me Work reduces the amount of fear or anxiety we experience because we learn that choosing courage in the face of vulnerability breeds connection, builds resilience, and elevates energy more often than it results in negative consequences. We also learn that, even when negative consequences from brave choices arise, we can handle them."}],"markDefs":[],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"2d88f4dbb38b","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"7aa69e5881580","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"Courage Me Work often results in greater confidence in our abilities and values, even if it’s uncomfortable. It’s speaking directly to others, navigating conflict with mindfulness, and holding ourselves accountable."}],"markDefs":[],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"cd4bba9960e9","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"1a6ef06977a10","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"The bad news is that we all have Me Work to do. And the good news is that we all have Me Work to do! All of us at least occasionally fall into default states of reactivity or mindlessness and show up for others in a less-than-ideal way."}],"markDefs":[],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"d76b85e89902","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"464ba80e8b290","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"We each have opportunities for self-improvement. The difference is people don’t have to do Me Work, it’s whether they choose to. Those of us who want to live and work to our potential and contribute to the strength and effectiveness of the groups we are a part of, we choose to do it. If you are interested in improving the culture on your team or in any aspect of your life, the work starts with you."}],"markDefs":[],"style":"normal"},{"_key":"330a7aeeb8c5","_type":"block","children":[{"_key":"9fdb5e6f0a9a0","_type":"span","marks":["em"],"text":"Excerpted from "},{"_key":"9fdb5e6f0a9a1","_type":"span","marks":[],"text":"Leading the Culture Journey: Elevating Everyday Actions to Create Extraordinary Workplaces"},{"_key":"9fdb5e6f0a9a2","_type":"span","marks":["em"],"text":" with permission from Wiley. All rights reserved."}],"markDefs":[],"style":"normal"}]},"href":"https://chief.com/articles/erin-coupe-energy-intelligence-leadership","relatedArticles":[]}},
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